Saturday, March 26, 2011

Juvenile delinquency is a modern term for what we did when we were kids. ~ Unknown

Just when you think your 12 year-old boy doesn't need adult supervision anymore, he gives you a little reality check :)

Wyatt was out last night with two of his friends while Cyle and Colby were at a wedding reception. On their way home, Cyle starting receiving frantic texts from Wyatt saying he was sorry and begging him not to be mad. Cyle raced home and found the house empty. He texted Wyatt to ask what was going on and Wyatt informed him that he and his friends had gone doorbell-ditching and one of the neighbors had called the cops.

When the police arrived at the scene of the heinous crime, my cute little boy RAN! He was public enemy number one! Runnin' from the law...

The other two boys didn't run but they sang like canaries as Wyatt hid nearby in the dark. He could hear them ratting him out to the fuzz. Cyle and Colby were instructed where to go and as they approached the vicinity of my son's hiding place, he came darting out from the darkness and tried to seek refuge in the backseat of Colby's car. He opened the back door and my 7 year-old calmly told him, "Other side". That was it. He lost what remaining hold he had on his emotions and snapped.

To add to the torment, Cyle told Colby to drive them over to the cop car parked around the corner. MEAN! Although I am quite sure that Wyatt fully expected his "friends" to give the authorities all the information they would need to pay him a little visit at home after they were escorted to their houses.

The po-po's were a no-show, but Cyle and Colby got quite a few more laughs out of pretending the cops were at the door, causing Wyatt to wail.

If I were a gamblin gal, I would bet Wyatt won't ever go doorbell ditchin' again. He took a little trip on the wild side and I think he likes it better in front of an X-box in the safety of his living room, where he's the one holding the gun and his adversaries are the one's hiding in the dark...

Tuesday, March 22, 2011

A truly rich man is one whose children run into his arms when his hands are empty. ~ Unknown


Daddy and Daughter

My dad is my hero...

I can remember all the stories he told me, and they still make me laugh (even though i've heard them dozen times or more). He was sooo cool! All the neighbor kids were scared of him and I'm sure Grandma Brack thought he was a giant bully, but I loved him, more than words can say...

His job took him away from home a lot when I was little. It didn't make me sad, I just missed him while he was gone and cherished the time we had when he was home. I have always been proud of what my dad has done for a living, but I wouldn't have cared if he worked down at the 7-11.

When my parents divorced, my dad "went where the work was" which was usually California.   We didn't see him very often when he lived out of state. My mom eventually remarried but to me, my dad was irreplaceable. No one else would ever be my "dad". 

My dad remarried and had my little brother Cole. He had a second family but I never felt replaced. He wasn't always there and he didn't always call but I never doubted his love for us.

Now I am older and have a family of my own. Sometimes life is busy and it's hard to find time to talk. Sometimes a few days go by, sometimes a week. Life is short, and time flies by in the blink of an eye. Maybe one day my best friend won't be a phone call away...whether he calls me or I call him...I want to share exciting news with him or cry to him when I am in trouble, and I can't imagine having that kind of bond with anyone else.

I gotta go...I haven't talked to my dad in a few days so I'm gonna give him a call :)





P.S. Being a parent is life's most difficult undertaking. If you don't believe me, you haven't tried it. I had no training. If there was a class being taught somewhere, no one told me about it. I plugged my nose, closed my eyes tight, and jumped in the deep end head-first. 

I didn't always do things right but if you were to ask my kids, they wouldn't know it. All they know is that their momma is their biggest fan. She is there when they fall down and when they succeed. I don't know any other way...

Thursday, March 17, 2011

Sometimes sushi is just superb, and other times there's nothing like a great big steak. It depends on where your taste buds are at the time. ~ Francesca Annis

Sushi is a Japanese dish consisting of cooked, vinegared rice which is commonly topped with other ingredients, such as fish or other seafood, or put into rolls.

My new addiction is sushi.

I am determined to try sushi everywhere I can find it. I went with Jennifer to the Tokyo Steakhouse and the Citrus roll was devine. I bought a California Spicy Salmon roll from Costco and it was also quite delicious. I tried a Cucumber Maki roll from Tepanyaki Steakhouse and it was sweet and simple, but tasty.

Saturday is the BIG event! Donald is taking me to the Happy Sumo. OMG! I can't wait. I looked up the menu online and I can't even decide what I want to try. I want it all!! A combo platter of some sort is going to be my best bet because I don't want a plate full of the same thing. It's all too beautiful and unique to have a plate full of one thing. I want to try a variety of different seafood and flavors.

I'll probably order the Master Sumo Combo, which is Rainbow roll, spicy hand roll and 3 pieces of sashimi.

My favorite is Tobiko. Tobiko is the Japanese word for flying fish roe used to create certain types of sushi. Tobiko is sometimes used as an ingredient in a California roll which is a maki-sushi roll usually made inside-out, containing cucumber, crab, and avacado and rolled in sesame seeds. The eggs are small, with a beautiful red-orange color, a mild smoky-salty taste, and a crunchy texture. They literally burst in your mouth! A salty little POP that makes your eyes widen and awakens the senses. Heavenly...is all I can say...

Tuesday, March 15, 2011

Daughters are little girls that grow up to be your best friend ~ Unknown



It kills you to see them grow up. But I guess it would kill you quicker if they didn't. ~ Barbara Kingsolver

Boobs! Caitlyn wants boobs!

This morning while I was getting her ready for school, I found a bra and some socks stuffed into the boots she was going to wear to school. I guess its my fault. She plays dress-up and always wants to put my bras on. So I tie them tight in the back for her and stuff them full of socks, so she can be grown up like everyone else. Cassidy and I have boobs. Heck, even Donald and Wyatt have boobs for that matter. Can anyone blame her for wanting to have boobs too?

She was crying as I gently explained to her that she couldn't take her boobs to school. I distracted her by changing the subject to...shoelaces, Haha! I am a genius! But I am still nervous. She will have to be frisked each day before school to make she she doesn't have any boobs in her pockets. I hope she finds something else to want...soon :)

Sunday, March 13, 2011

You don't chose your family. They are God's gift to you, as you are to them ~ Desmond Tutu



My dad called me the other day. He was sitting on the front porch of his condo in Las Vegas. He said, "I just called to say I love you".  Shannon called me the other day. She was at home with Hailey. She said, "I just called cuz I haven't talked to you in a little bit". It had only been a week. We say "Love you" at the end of every call. Saturday was Jen's birthday. I sent her a text at 1:30 in the morning. I kiss my kids multiple times a day, EVERY day, on the lips, even the 20-year old. My family IS a gift.


A hero is an ordinary individual who finds strength to persevere and endure in spite of overwhelming obstacles ~ Christopher Reeve


Japan will rebuild because we did...

Saturday, March 12, 2011

Life is like an echo. What you send out comes back ~ Zig Ziglar

Daylight Savings Time? Really? Just what are we saving? Sure feels like I've lost an hour of sleep. Gonna need a healthy dose of Java and Jersey Shore tomorrow...

So, I was thinking about the destruction in Japan. A hundred years ago what would an earthquake destoy? Virtually nothing. The wagon path to your house? Because everything is constructed with concrete and steel, the devastation is severe. Japan will never look like it did a week ago. In the blink of an eye, it's all gone. They will rebuild, because it's human nature. They will lay down more concrete and erect more steel where it once was, but it will never be the same. 

Life goes on...

It is good that I can still see the beauty in every day even when I am not chemically inclined to do so. I love my kids so much. I watch them every day and marvel in the people that they have become. Once I held them in my arms, helpless and small, and now they are strong and sure, hardly in need of protecting, making decisions and becoming people right in front of my eyes.

Caitlyn says things that almost knock me off my chair. Her vocabulary is, well...intense. She is a mini-me.

Wyatt is a loving soul even though he doesn't want anyone to know, (don't tell him I spilled the beans). He is a conundrum. He is sweet and onery at the same time. Bipolar? Nah...

Cassidy will see that these years are the ones she will always remember. She should make the most of them because when she tells her children what life was like growing up, these are the stories she will have to tell them.

Colby makes me proud to call myself "Mom". I was "Mom" too soon and was not nearly prepared but the little boy and young man he has become have given me a sense of accomplishment that nothing else in life will even compare to.

I have done good...